I do not need anything anymore!

On the occasion of my birthday, I have always had some reflection on life. And today I also play something in my soul!
You know what? I am older for another year.
I am grateful for more experience.
I am happy that I am in the place where I am, because I came to him myself.

What I got there, I came! – How was it? – Once hard, once light, but always somehow. A lot of tears and a lot of joy. You roll over, shake, get up and go on. As in life.

I feel so strongly, as much as I can, that I do not need anything anymore.
I have achieved a state of mind that gives me a sense of security.
I do not have to be perfect.
I do not have to be the smartest one.
I do not have to have everything.
I have to change “I want”.

I feel that I have matured.
I matured to be myself. What does this mean to me?
Peace of mind.
The joy of having what I can afford.
Appreciating every moment of my life.
A way of eating which is good for me.
Flamenco dance that gives me the joy of life, the power of vitality and the energy of femininity.
My meetings with people who give me joy.

I do not need anything anymore.
This freedom, which woke up in me just a few days ago, is a miracle that I discovered.
It is a pity that we are getting so late in life, but … better late than never!

I feel that I am in the best moment of my life.
I feel that my many years of work on myself, on my weaknesses and disabilities, have brought results.
I know that I still have a lot to do.
I know how to take what’s best from the world.
Because I do not need anything anymore.

I accepted where I am. That’s who I am. It’s how I live.
I accepted that pseudo friends had gone, and they were those who care about our relationship.
Now I choose my friends and acquaintances myself – I can, but I do not have to – because I am my best friend.

I learned, or rather, I developed the ability to look after myself. For your health, nutrition, breathing, exercises, contemplation.

I also learned assertiveness in relation to every person in my life. Regardless of our relationships.
I became mentally independent, which brought me greater strength to life. I felt that everything that was happening around me was at my request. It even has its name: “I took the helm in my own hands or – I am the blacksmith of my own destiny”.

And, surprisingly, I work two-three-four times harder than before in my life. Yes, several hours a day. Sometimes it is hard, so human.

But … I feel good about it and I do not feel it as a burden. Knowing that everything I do finally makes sense.

It is this sense that we miss the most in life. It seems to us that it exists and is chasing something that we do not understand. In each of us, he has to see something, so that we can live according to our expectations. And not the expectations of others. I also lived like that for many years – what the employers expected, the family – always others were in the first place. My needs at the end. I paid for the price of health loss, but thanks to that I learned humility.
I am very, very humble towards life. Appreciating the smallest detail I have.
Through all these years, faith has always supported me.

“No one can make you feel inferior without your permission,” Eleanor Roosevelt

I do not want to change you, I want to meet you.
Yes, this in turn concerns my change of approach to people.
Absolute acceptance of who you are. It is you who sets the direction of your life, not me.
You create your present and future. Whether or not I will be in it does not matter if we do not want it.

Surely, when you read this, you think to yourself that there is such a reconciliation with life. So it is.
We’re born twice. As Confucius would say: “Man has two lives, the second begins when he realizes that he has one”.

The absolute truth is that what a person reads, listens to, watches – takes away and absorbs his senses, reflects his state of personal development – intellectual and spiritual, then affecting his life and surroundings.

I suggest that you have full control over your own thoughts and feelings. You decide about your life … and no one should have more influence over it than you. So choose what is good for you from your point of view.

Your greatest strength lies in the freedom of choice. Therefore, choose happiness, health, all goodness, beauty, wisdom, truth and love.

Give people freedom, play, a sense of security, self-confidence, a sense of worth and an unconditional and selfless acceptance and tolerance of their imperfections.

I wish this true change to each of you, beloved!
Remember that you are perfect as you are!
With love in your heart – Kasia